Energy can only build or destroy. Are you building people up or are you tearing them down. No gray areas. It’s funny how people go through life treating others bad and then later try to justify their actions. That goes for lying, gossiping, mental abuse, manipulation, selfishness. Yes there’s a definition for it. At the core of all these beings is unhappiness. You heard the saying “hurt people hurt people.” When a mirror is placed in front of them, they then start lying to themselves. If it’s not you in the mirror then who is it? You will never feel complete until you be honest with yourself first. When you are true to you, there is no need to hurt those around you.